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Dr Farmer Expresses Appreciation

December 25, 1995

p>The year has drawn to a close. Somehow I've managed to keep up with an ambitious life and schedule. It has been a challenge to write a column that is worthwhile and significant every week. Looking back over this past year's work, I take a certain satisfaction and wonder how I did it all. Fortunately it happens one week at a time.

I've grown from learning, researching and writing this column. When I discover something of value I can hardly wait to share it with you my readers. The column also helps me reflect on my own life and define what I believe and feel and, in some instances, make improvements. I also develop an appreciation for the wonder and complexity of life and how much there is to know.

I want to take this opportunity to express my appreciation to the many people who contribute to this column.

To the editors of the papers that carry this column: You are the ultimate consumer. You are the arbiter of what is of value to your community. I appreciate your confidence in me and the precious gift you give - access to the public for whom we share a trust and mutual responsibility.

To my wife who doubles as an editor and critic: Thank you for your unerring sense of judgment. The truth is sometimes hard to bear. I trust your insight. Thank you for not letting me get by without giving my best. None of this would have been possible without your support.

To Dixie Davis of the Preston Connection: Thanks for lifting a load, for handling the business end of this enterprise, for your thorough editing, and for the little things you notice and do.

To my colleagues at AgriTalk: Your trust in me and our working relationship is a pleasure. I understand how radio can be as important a vehicle for good as the printed word. Reaching people with a quality message is what it is all about.

To my children at home: Thanks for putting up with a Dad who is not perfect. Having a Dad in the limelight puts a little extra strain on your lives. You are more important to me than all of this. Help me remember that.

To Trista, my daughter who edits the booklets: Your talent and encouragement are much appreciated. I get a glimpse the rewards of having a child as a contributing partner in a family business. It is special and helps me appreciate the rhythm of life. The rising generation takes our place and gives back to us in ways we didn't dream.

To my friends: Your comments and words of encouragement are important to me. I'm glad you are readers and that you care.

To my readers who have written with personal problems: Thank you for your trust. There is help and hope. I am just one of many.

To all you column clippers: Thank you. You pay me the ultimate compliment.

To all you readers who have sent me thank you notes or expressions of appreciation: You don't know how important your gratitude is to me. It makes it all worthwhile. Your comments tell me to keep going - that I am touching lives and making a difference.

To the people who I've seen in counseling: Thanks for your trust. You are special. You have the courage to improve your lives, no matter what it takes. Your problems and your lives make it all real and keep me in touch with the human condition. Without you, this column wouldn't have life.

To the special people I've interviewed and were gracious with your time and expertise: Thank you. You probably won't see this or understand how important you are collectively to this column. I learn from you and pass it on. Your insights and knowledge have been put to use.

To my partners at Psychological Associates of the Black Hills: Thanks for your friendship, your support and your tolerance of my imperfections. I admire your work as much as you admire mine. The free enterprise system is magnificent but it can be lonely. I'm glad I have you for partners.

To all my readers: Thank you for letting me be a part of your lives.